Comfortable in our Skin

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So I thought I’d talk a bit about skin shopping today!  I know some of ya’ll haven’t changed your skin in eons, and if you’re happy, I’m happy lol.  But nothing can update your look faster or more completely than a good skin.  It’s the foundation on which you build your look, and the one thing I think that is most remembered about your look as well.  A skin can make you more comfortable or uncomfortable about how you look too.  Clothing is easy to change, and most of us like to try a variety of looks and dress for different occasions, but your skin goes with you wherever you go.

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I have several skins that I currently love and wear a lot.  I have many from Silken Moon, but this one is my new fav because it is so close to my skin in RL.  What I love about SL though, is if I’m feeling like a change, it’s as easy as a mouse click to do.  RL takes a little more effort lol.  Anyway, I digress.  Even if you are happy with the skin or skins you have, it’s a good idea to go try on some demos now and then.  Things change and what may have been a kick ass skin two years ago, will pale in comparison to what you can get now.  So I’m going to share some tips with you to make skin shopping a pleasant experience!

TRY THE DEMO!

I will go around to several places, pick up a bunch of demos and tp home to try them on.  Once you have one on, play with your graphics settings.  What setting do you usually run around SL with?  If your system is good enough to go to a club with ultra graphics on.. I hate you, no I don’t really but I kinda do lol!  Most of us have to lower our graphics to deal with lag.  So look at yourself in that setting and in higher ones as well.  Now if you’re trying a fantasy skin or something you may only use for blogging or pictures etc… it may not have to be perfect on a lower setting.  But your everyday skin should hold up to a lower setting or you’ll end up feeling disappointed.

THROW OUT YOUR FACELIGHT!

Play with Windlight settings.  Make sure you have “Atmospheric Shaders” checked in your graphics settings.  I keep my graphics on Mid and check Atmospheric Shaders and seem to do ok with the lag situation.

LOOK AT THE BODY TOO!

I’ve seen a lot of skins that have wonderful detail on the face, but the body is well, flat, with no shading or definition.  Look at the collarbone, shoulder blades, elbows and knees.  Is the shading realistic or overdone or nonexistent?

THINK ABOUT YOUR SHAPE!

If you have a unique shape, the skin will look quite different on you than it does on the model in the vendor pic.  TRY THE DEMO!  Very tall and very short avis can also stretch or squash the texture of the skin.

VALUE VS. PRICE!

There are several ways skins are sold.  You’ll often see where you can buy packs of the same tone with different makeups.  That’s convenient but can also be expensive and limiting.  If you’re on a budget, I’d suggest going for one really good skin with no makeup.  Silken Moon is awesome for that, as are some others.  That way, you can add whatever makeup you feel like, but always have a great skin to start out with.  Shop around, because price does not always dictate quality.  Silken Moon skins are not cheap, but very reasonable for what you get.  I’ve seen some very, very expensive skins that looked awesome on the vendor pic, but when I tried the demo, I looked like a hot mess.  So ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS, TRY THE DEMO!

HAVE FUN!

Bring a friend and make a day of it, then go out and party like a rock star =o)

WEARING:

Silken Moon Pearl Dk Brown Nat

Silken Moon Satin Lips – Red Hot

Silken Moon Signature Eyegloss – Sky & Signature Eyeliner – Femme Fatale

Silken Moon Betty Corset Fitted Mesh – Poppy

Truth Hair Sassy 2 – Brown05

Zuri Heart to Heart Set – Ruby/Black

Poses by PosESioN

Security Comes From Within

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So life has thrown some curve balls at me lately.  Everything is up in the air.  I am unsure where I’ll be living in the near future.  I’m doing what I can to have things turn out favorably, but there are never any guarantees.

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It is easy to panic when the rug is yanked out from under you.  It’s easy to give up too.  What I hope to do is look within and find my inner strength and security and stand in that light, think from it, act from it.  From that perspective, it’s easy to see how blessed I really am and feel gratitude for all I have.  Then let that feeling go out and seed the clouds of possibilities to rain on me.

Wearing

Somnia Bebop Jeans – Black and Zeblicious – Pink

Amacci Sione – Dark Brown Streaked

Silken Moon Silke Warm Light Natural, Gem Eyeshadow – Purple, Shimmercore Lips – Berry

Where Dreams & Shadows Play

Metaphor Suit in Smog from Silken Moon

Metaphor Suit in Smog from Silken Moon

Have you ever started to dream before you’re fully asleep, in that misty in-between time as you’re just drifting off?  Or have you ever started to wake up and found yourself still dreaming?

I love those moments, so surreal and yet at times they feel more real than everyday life.  Things in those moments seem much more vibrant, pulsating with life and color.

Carnivale Face Make-up in Bronze from Silken Moon

Carnivale Face Make-up in Bronze from Silken Moon

I’ve been working on lucid dreaming, and though it doesn’t happen every time, I often know that I am dreaming when I dream and it’s awesome.  The dream becomes your playground then, because there you are limitless.  I believe though in the in-between moments of waking and right before sleep, we can peek into the noosphere and feel our collective heartbeat.

Where your attention goes, your energy flows.

Where your attention goes, your energy flows.

It seems that all over the world, there is an overload of stress these days.  And I believe we are unconsciously infecting one another with our own inner stresses and fears.  Energy likes to move, life isn’t meant to be stagnant.  We can never really repress anything, it has to go somewhere.  So as I drift in the noosphere, I focus on love.  I think if we could all do that, we would change the world.  There is only love and fear, all else comes from one or the other.  The more love we can send though ourselves and out into the world in all it’s dimensions, the better off we’ll be.

Thanks so much for taking the time to read my blog!  Wishing you a beautiful day and sweet dreams =o)

Noc

 

Featuring ~

Silken Moon

~Metaphor Suit in Smog

~Carnivale Face Make-up in Bronze

~Silke Warm Light Natural Skin

Also Wearing ~

Amacci Hair Sione (Streaked) – Onxy

Kosh Rapture Earrings and Necklace

Nailed It Autumn Nights Set

Pictures taken at Sleepy Snail

Poses by IsoMotion

 

Dark of the Moon

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There is a new moon on January 1st.  It made me think about putting a new, well.. rather an old spin on the tradition of making New Year’s Resolutions.  Why do we do that to ourselves?  Do we feel pressured by the endless late night infomercials telling us to “lose weight now” or “be financially independent” and so on?  I think we need to take a moment and ask ourselves what it is we REALLY want.

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The dark of the moon is a wonderful time to plant the seed of intention.  The idea being, what you plant will grow as the moon grows.

So erase whatever is written on your blackboard, start fresh… it’s a new moon.  Dare to challenge what you think you know.  Forget about what you think you “should” or “shouldn’t”.

 

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Take as much time as you can to do exactly what you want.  Time is the most precious resource we have, so why waste it chasing anyone’s dreams but your own?  So take whatever brings you the most joy and plant the seed by the Dark of the Moon.

 

Wearing:

Featuring Silken Moon ~

Simone NYE Special Skin

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Paradox Vest – Frost

Sassy Pants – Gold

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Luna Dress – Winter Girl

Also Wearing –

(Yummy) Moonsung Set – Silver

[Gos] Paris Peeptoe – Metallics

D!va Aya – Brown Diamond

LaRosa Polish Lace Nail Edition – Silver

Pictures taken at the Tableau Sim =o)

 

Thank you for reading!

 

 

 

Giving Thanks

I'm ready for the holiday parties wearing Sensuous Glitz in Orange from Somnia.

I’m ready for the holiday parties wearing Sensuous Glitz in Orange from Somnia.

We’re not having the traditional family gathering for Thanksgiving this year, people are either working or travelling it seems.  But in a way I’m glad to not have to fuss over a dinner, or worry if I brought enough crescent rolls for everyone.

Wearing Simone October Skin available at the Fall in Love Event..and I do love it!

Wearing Simone October Skin available at the Fall in Love Event..and I do love it!

You know it’s funny, I can get myself worked into a hissy fit over the smallest things sometimes.  Like this morning I ran out of hot water in the shower and started to have a little internal bitch session.  Then I stopped and thought of how many people would really love just to be able to take a shower, hot or cold.  How many are doing without so much every single day.  Many people have more things and money and freedom to do whatever they want than I do, but I have so much to be happy and grateful for.  Doesn’t mean I’ll never feel frustrated again, but if I can keep a feeling of gratitude in my heart, frustration is bound to fade quickly.

Wearing:

Somnia Sensuous Glitz – Orange

Eclectica Garden Party Shoes – Tangerine

Lazuri Halloween Special Edition 2012 Necklace, Earrings, & Ring

Silken Moon Lashy Eyes – Olive & Simone October Skin available at Fall in Love Event

Nailed It Prim Nails – Diamond Set

Clawtooth Heck on Wheels – Coco

Vox Diva Eyelashes

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Thank you for taking the time to read, I hope you enjoyed my blog.  Wishing you and yours a very blessed holiday season!

Silken Seduction

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I love this dress from Silken Moon.  It’s sexy, sophisticated and makes me feel like I should be sipping champagne.  I’m so happy that Malicia is branching out and making some clothing, the textures on this dress are awesome.  If silver isn’t your thing, there are lots of other colors to choose from.

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I love her skins as well.  They all seem to have an ethereal quality, so soft, almost translucent.  If you haven’t checked out Silken Moon lately, you’re missing out!

Wearing:

Silken Moon Luna Dress – Silky Silver

Silken Moon Signature Skin – Moonglow

Lazuri Sienna AllInOne Necklace & Earrings

LaRosa Polish Lace Nail – Edition Silver

Gos Boutique Paris Peeptoe – Silver

D!va Hair – Ana (Type A) – Brown Diamond from Collabor88

Poses:

PosESioN – Madame 9

Kirin – Burlesque Poses / Cane Pose 6

Location:

Creations Park – Our generous designers donate 50% of every purchase on this sim to the Michael J Fox Foundation.